Perhaps parents should raise there kids .
I was bullied every day of my life until I decided it was not going to happen anymore. This is nothing anywhere near new.
Perhaps we should go back to the days when kids were allowed (at least try) to stand up to bullies.
completely agree with the first part. can't have competitions because that means someone wins and someone loses. I'm amazed sports are still allowed. Have to punish both fighters because to do otherwise would require blame on one party, singling them out.And that's the difference. Kids today are raised weaker, not allowed to have a sense of competition, and forced to be in a "zero tolerance" environment.
When I was in Middle/High school, "zero tolerance" was being pushed out for fighting. You were told that any fighting is an immediate punishment up to being expelled.
Bullying, however, isn't necessarily fighting, it's not a specifically "physical" thing.
Do kids suffer bullying and turn out fine, sure. Could this have an seriously negative impact on a kid who has no support structure at home and few or no friends? Yes, I think so. I don't think there is one cause or one solution to these issues. A little "bullying" probably does build character in kids. A lot of bullying, without anyone for the kid to turn to, tends to reinforce a lot of negatives in some kid's life. I just don't think it's as simple as saying "I was bullied as a kid and I didn't become a mass shooter so, therefore, it isn't about bullying". When dealing with the human mind nothing is that easy.
Right. I think it's something that has to have more aspects to it.
A bullied kid that has no friends to turn to, no support, and gets re-enforced over and over how bleak and pointless life is to them... that is probably a higher risk. School systems aren't helping.
Thousands of kids are bullied. It takes something more unique to make one of those kids turn into a killer.
From a kids perspective things that happen in school is their whole universe...
I've said it before and will say it again, I'm glad I was a kid before cell phones, Facebook, and all this mess.
I've said it before and will say it again, I'm glad I was a kid before cell phones, Facebook, and all this mess.