Well I'm hanging my head in defeat. Just checked a few forshner blades that I worked on last week and there isn't one in the lot that will cut hair off my arm. Wife asked qwhat I was doing, told her I sucked at sharpening knives, she said don't walk toward the light. In hindsight, it looked like I was cutting my wrist.
I feel for you. I was in the exact same place as you last month. I have an Arkansas stone triangle thing I bought at Gander Mountain. It is supposed to sit on a table, but the edge got better if I held the knife stable in one hand and moved the stone vertically with the other. Things got a little better. Then I bought a hand held diamond field sharpener froom REI. That got it close to shaving sharp. The thing that put it over the edge was finally getting a paddle strop. I bought 3 different compounds. After a bought 20 min of stropping, success! This is on a scandi edge in O1 tool steel.