Hodgdon uses small pistol magnum primers for all the .357 Mag load on their web site, whether H110 or Titegroup, specifically Winchester SPM.
http://data.hodgdon.com/main_menu.asp
Use what your reloading manual says to use. Usually they will even tell you what brand most of the time. Yes there are differences among brands, so that is one of the reasons you start at the start load and stop at the max load IF you don't see pressue signs (like flat primers, sticky exctraction, etc.). If you see pressure signs, stop and back down a bit.
As a general rule don't use H110 with anything but magnum primers. Titegroup can go either way. Use what the manual uses -- that is what they tested the pressure with to determine that the load was safe. If you change you could drastically alter the pressure curve and therefore the safety of the listed load.
Allow me to add a few items:
First, use H110 (or W-296) only for "magnum" loads. Do not load that powder down for lighter loads--detonation could happen.
45fan... have you shot your loads in cold weather? (like in the 20's) There are enough stories out there regarding cold weather and H110 that I'm not going to chance it.