Hoosierdood
Grandmaster
My daughter got married 5 months ago and they have lived close by since then. They came over last night and told us that he is beginning the enlistment process, and has already talked the the recruiter.
I have mixed emotions about the whole thing. I’m super proud of him and my daughter that they see the importance of serving their country. At the same time, I know that this can be a huge challenge on a newly married couple. I’m a little sad because I know they will be moving away, possibly several times.
He is 21 and my daughter is 20, and they have been talking about starting a family. I worry for my daughter raising kids possibly while he is gone.
I expressed my support for them. It’s their decision to make. I told them it will be challenging for both of them, but if anyone can make it work, they can. They are both strong, mature beyond their age, and have far better communication than my wife and I did at their age.
Any advice that you can think of that I can pass along to them would be appreciated.
I have mixed emotions about the whole thing. I’m super proud of him and my daughter that they see the importance of serving their country. At the same time, I know that this can be a huge challenge on a newly married couple. I’m a little sad because I know they will be moving away, possibly several times.
He is 21 and my daughter is 20, and they have been talking about starting a family. I worry for my daughter raising kids possibly while he is gone.
I expressed my support for them. It’s their decision to make. I told them it will be challenging for both of them, but if anyone can make it work, they can. They are both strong, mature beyond their age, and have far better communication than my wife and I did at their age.
Any advice that you can think of that I can pass along to them would be appreciated.