OK Cupid's nice enough-- it's free & well-organized.
Hey-- why not add another section to INGO? ' )
[Just sayin' what everybody's thinkin'.]
I've said before I'd be down for this
Try a church singles group. Just an idea. I have dated a few times from online as well. I cant say I met all weirdos but I will just say they wernt my type. I also think timing is everything. Some are still buried or living in the past with a bad taste in their mouth. Stay away from those. They are takers and not givers. It really is hard to meet a good or nice guy or lady especially with no baggae sort of speak. The older one gets the harder it is too. If I had the good luck it takes I would be married by now also. All I can say is keep looking but dont settle for what you really dont want.
I work every Sunday so I haven't gone to church in a few years. I've met one who had a TERRIBLE taste in his mouth from his ex wife... He was actually doing very well other then EVERYTHING was his ex's fault...her this and her that...guys, THAT is NOT attractive...
Not sure that would work. There's something like 8000 men and 20 women. And 18 of those women are married or "in a relationship."
Works for me....like someone else pointed out, most of the guys seem to be either taken or wrong age group for me...still wouldn't mind giving it a shot, lol.....
Seems to have been my experience as well in the brief time i tried the online dating... minus the old people part.
OP, best advice i can give is just tell all of your friends that you are looking and available, and be open when they try and set you up on a date.... thats how i met one of my ex's which lasted until i went overseas for a year..... probably for the best since i am marrying my high school sweatheat next month.
trust me, EVERYONE I know at work and in my personal life (outside my son's martial arts school anyways) knows I'm single and looking...my ex-BIL and his wife tried to set me up with a firefighter/EMT my BIL works with, no go on his part (no $/time for dating)...
I've been on a few..
One, I ended up marrying, she went back to her ex while I was on active duty, spent all my hard earned money putting me a few grand in the hole.. all in all I waisted 7 years of my life with her and we just recently divorced.
Another woman wanted me to be the father of her two sons and wanted to move in with me 20 minutes after we met... We didn't even get our appetizer yet!
And the last one turned out to be a stalker calling me at all hours of the night.
The funny thing is I'm still trying
Yep, me too, exactly.......I hold out hope that somewhere there's someone out there for me, I just have to find him...and online dating might help