I covered this over the weekend. We followed the parents when they went looking in Hoosier National Forest for Lauren on Sunday. The mom asked me if I was from Bloomington (I went to IU but not much knowledge outside of the city) and if I knew anything about bordering towns, dividing lines, etc... All while they're walking around screaming her name campsite to campsite. I'm not sure I've ever seen someone so desperate and lost.
It was hard to watch. A dozen people walking around a park that large. At one point Mom picked up a beer bottle she found in the woods in case it was "evidence".
I was always amazed at how carelessly female students would behave when I was at IU. More than once I walked one or more drunk girls back to their dorm or apartment rather than let them leave a party alone in the dark. It reflects badly on young men in our culture that protecting young women is such a low priority. The thought probably doesn't even occur to most college aged men.
exactly!!! It has served me well in my former profession and in my former single social life and even now as a married father no longer in search of "tail" NOT to EVER be in a circumstance alone with a female unknown to me, ESPECIALLY if she is drunk. all it takes is one even false accusation to RUIN the rest of your life or take away your freedom. If a woman doesnt value her reputation and safety more than to be a wondering drunk then its not my job as a person strolling by to be her babysitter. now that being said, if I ever saw a person under assault I would render as much aid as I safely could without becoming a victim myself. but you dont have to travel far or to a college to see drunk wondering women with no regard for their safety. All we can do is try to teach our daughters not to put themselves into danger by bad or unsafe behavior. its still sad that their are evil people in the world who do sick things to ANYONE, not just young college girls. im not trying to be insensitive just being honestmost chicks won't let you walk them home and any person that knows you made the effort just accuses you of trying to hookup with a drunk chick. It can be so frowned upon that you don't want to deal with the accusations. I say this from experience.
Years ago a buddy and I got jumped two blocks from where this girl was last seen. I highly recommend not going north of tenth street if late and you aren't mentally 100% and on high alert.
This is really a sad deal. I hope they find closure quickly.
I just saw on the news that the apartment building where she lives, refused to open a door where their camera recording devices were kept so the police knocked down the door. why in hell would they refuse to open the door? why wouldnt you do everything possible to assist in helping to find this girl? jackballs! the police had a warrant anyways. If I were a student I would be moving my **** out of that apartment place.
I hope they find her and those involved
I just saw on the news that the apartment building where she lives, refused to open a door where their camera recording devices were kept so the police knocked down the door. why in hell would they refuse to open the door? why wouldnt you do everything possible to assist in helping to find this girl? jackballs! the police had a warrant anyways. If I were a student I would be moving my **** out of that apartment place.
we all have my friend. its just different when a girl does it because they are vulnerable to attack more so than a male.I am like the other and really amazed this doesn't happen more often as well. I am not proud of it but as a younger man, I have done the same thing countless times including passing out in the bushes of a building and not waking up until the morning.