First, do NOT make any decisions in the heat of the moment.
Was this an isolated incident for which she's penitent or is in an ongoing occurrence that is likely to repeat. If the latter then get yourself a lawyer and follow his or her advice.
If it is the former then you need to evaluate whether the marriage is worth saving. ALL relationships go through rocky patches for a variety of reasons. You may not want to salvage it in the heat of the moment, but trust can be rebuilt to a degree of you both are willing to work on it. Outside counseling can help here. Not so much to "save" your marriage, but to have an objective third party help you make rational decisions. That decision MAY lead to divorce or it MAY lead to further resolve to work through it, but either way a good counselor will help you ensure you aren't being foolish in your decision.
Either way, good luck. It's not easy, but it also isn't the worst thing that can happen to you by a lot, no matter what it seems like in the pain of the now.
I`m not going to post too much personal stuff on the interwebs, Just a simple question.
For those of you that have been thru it, How do/did you deal with it ? (Wife caught cheating)
And I don`t drink, so that`s out
Rick
Thanks everybody, unfortunately there is no fixing this and it really sucks because I thought I had a friend and companion for life.
No children thankfully
"Tough time in life" is an understatement !
Thanks everybody, unfortunately there is no fixing this and it really sucks because I thought I had a friend and companion for life.
No children thankfully
"Tough time in life" is an understatement !