steveh_131
Grandmaster
Two days ago my wife called me, and she was pretty upset. She had just gone to pick up my son from his preschool group. It's a small group, there are maybe 10 kids in it. There are 2 teachers and usually 2 assistants (volunteers I think) helping out.
There was an older man working as an assistant that day. She guessed he was about 60. My son is almost 3, and he is extremely affectionate. He hugs everybody he meets, usually more than once.
She was upset because she got there a little early and was watching through the one-way glass while they got the kids ready to leave. The man insisted that my son hug him and give him a kiss on the cheek before he left. My son was frustrated and trying to pull away to leave and didn't want to hug him, but the man was insisting.
I'm not sure how to feel about this. It's unfortunate that in our society it is almost forbidden for a man to work with children. But the simple fact is that it does make me uncomfortable and a little creeped out, especially the way the man was acting. I'm not sure how to handle this. I'm tempted to either pull my son from the school or talk to someone about the man hugging my son. If my son initiated the hugging, then fine...but isn't it strange for the man to be initiating it? And a kiss!? Even the female teachers don't do any of that.
What say you, INGO?
There was an older man working as an assistant that day. She guessed he was about 60. My son is almost 3, and he is extremely affectionate. He hugs everybody he meets, usually more than once.
She was upset because she got there a little early and was watching through the one-way glass while they got the kids ready to leave. The man insisted that my son hug him and give him a kiss on the cheek before he left. My son was frustrated and trying to pull away to leave and didn't want to hug him, but the man was insisting.
I'm not sure how to feel about this. It's unfortunate that in our society it is almost forbidden for a man to work with children. But the simple fact is that it does make me uncomfortable and a little creeped out, especially the way the man was acting. I'm not sure how to handle this. I'm tempted to either pull my son from the school or talk to someone about the man hugging my son. If my son initiated the hugging, then fine...but isn't it strange for the man to be initiating it? And a kiss!? Even the female teachers don't do any of that.
What say you, INGO?