There are now 9mm handguns that are more powerful at the same size and price range (Kahr CW9, Kel-Tec PF9, Ruger LC9). My first question is, why even go with a .380? Unless you are collecting calibers or you want a small pocket gun, the .380 is kinda pointless to me.
There are plenty of lightweight 9's on the market and other .380's. But, most are uncomfortable and kind of painful to shoot (especially for the fairer sex).
Plus, I wouldn't trust any of the models listed to be my carry gun.
Note: This is coming from the guy who traded his Thunder for a CZ-82.