First off, I hate putting stuff like this on this board, but honestly...this place has a lot of wisdom and people I can trust.
The Latest Chapter in Randy's World. I love living life as drama free as possible. But to the chase of it. Little while back you guys may have read the post where I was dealing with my daughters heroin addict boyfriend, who gave her heroin and I found out. Well he finally OD'd and died yesterday after getting out of jail. I originally tried blaming him and still do, for her problems...but many people told me the problem was hers to own...and I agree. Well fast forward to yesterday before he died. His father texted my daughter and told her if his son makes a recovery she is to never show her face near them again. Well, that's all fine and well, he is a grieving father. Then after he died the father sent my daughter several texts saying it was her fault, she should have died not him, all kinds of hateful things. Then this morning he sent her the same kind of text, while she was at work. She was working when he OD'd but alerted the parents after not hearing from him.
She has already been crying for 3 days, is a nervous wreck, says she wishes she had died instead, etc. Then his texts just drive her right to the edge. I am honestly starting to worry about her. I know she told a friend she wishes she could just die. So I have a 2 prong question.
First and most important, how do you know if someone is suicidal or just grieving?
Secondly, How do I handle this kids father? He is grieving but I have had enough of his ****. I am ready to go over to his house and settle it the old fashion way, but I know he is grieving and that wouldn't be good. My other option is I am going to the Sheriff's department and telling them what is going on and going to request they tell his father to knock it off. For now she is blocking his texts but I think the damage is done. What a mess huh?
If you are the praying type, we could use em!
The Latest Chapter in Randy's World. I love living life as drama free as possible. But to the chase of it. Little while back you guys may have read the post where I was dealing with my daughters heroin addict boyfriend, who gave her heroin and I found out. Well he finally OD'd and died yesterday after getting out of jail. I originally tried blaming him and still do, for her problems...but many people told me the problem was hers to own...and I agree. Well fast forward to yesterday before he died. His father texted my daughter and told her if his son makes a recovery she is to never show her face near them again. Well, that's all fine and well, he is a grieving father. Then after he died the father sent my daughter several texts saying it was her fault, she should have died not him, all kinds of hateful things. Then this morning he sent her the same kind of text, while she was at work. She was working when he OD'd but alerted the parents after not hearing from him.
She has already been crying for 3 days, is a nervous wreck, says she wishes she had died instead, etc. Then his texts just drive her right to the edge. I am honestly starting to worry about her. I know she told a friend she wishes she could just die. So I have a 2 prong question.
First and most important, how do you know if someone is suicidal or just grieving?
Secondly, How do I handle this kids father? He is grieving but I have had enough of his ****. I am ready to go over to his house and settle it the old fashion way, but I know he is grieving and that wouldn't be good. My other option is I am going to the Sheriff's department and telling them what is going on and going to request they tell his father to knock it off. For now she is blocking his texts but I think the damage is done. What a mess huh?
If you are the praying type, we could use em!