Yep, at my mother's funeral. My aunt (mother's brother's wife) said that she had never liked my mother and yada, yada...yada. For the life of me, I don't know why people can't contain their negative thoughts. It certainly doesn't endear the survivors to the mouthy person. It only reflects poorly on the person making the remarks. That being said, there are a lot of folks out there who are crude, ill-mannered, self-centered and cruel. My mother had her faults, but she raised me to have good manners and respect for others.You guys ever noticed how every funeral people say "He/She was such a good person" even if they were really a POS. I am just wondering what you guys would think if someone showed up at a funeral and professed the truth about someone. Have any of you ever been at a funeral where people just told the truth, even if bad, about a person?