On the subject of decockers users should always keep this firmly in mind - there have been a number of cases of persons using a decocker to drop the hammer on a loaded pistol and had a ND. Most of these (believe it or not) have been LEO personnel. At least one case in New York City involved an officer decocking his pistol while covering a handcuffed suspect and shot him. Imagine defending yourself in court on that. ALWAYS EXPECT the gun to fire when decocking (or just lowering the hammer) and make sure the muzzle is not on anything you care about. Hopefully you will never see this happen but like I said always consider the possibility. This is the main reason I don't personally care for the idea of a decockers. One second of inattention can have dire consequences. Relying on a mechanical safety is bad enough without relying on one while dropping a hammer. Most people that have seen this did not believe it was possible until it happened to them.
The little brother, 3913NL, is also a great gun. Carry it often, love it much.Can't go wrong with a S&W 6906, and you can generally find one reasonably priced.
Have you looked at the new high capacity 9mm from Bersa? Just saw them online the other day. Pretty cool stuff.thank you for all the great feedback. Having a hard time finding a better option than my trusty thunder 9!
From the few that I've owned/used, SIG has the best design for decocking mechanism. Ruger and Beretta would drop the hammer and let it crashing onto the slide (Ruger moves the firing pin forward, while Beretta rotate the rear part of firing pin out of the way), a loud bang. HK USP also let the hammer fall at full force, but drops it to half cock. SIG would drop the hammer at the beginning, then the hammer is controlled by the decocking lever. Your hand controls how fast the decocking lever is released, and in turn how fast the hammer dropped. A very smart design...