My point is, listen carefully....THE REASON DOES NOT MATTER!!! He either wrote the member here a bad check or wrote someone else a bad check. Frankly, I do not care if you like my stance on this matter, the fact is a bad check was written and some of you want to excuse that because of a funeral that was AFTER the check was written. Like I said before and will say again, after the check is written, signed and mailed, that money is no longer yours, regardless of circumstance, you have no right to spend it. I have compassion for the loss of whomever the funeral was for, but no I do not have compassion for the OP writing a bad check.
Yeah, you sound very compassionate...
Maybe you shouldn't buy stuff you don't have the money to pay for! If that were me, I would have tried to cash it a couple of times to watch your Insufficient Funds Fees go up.