I came home from work and my 13 year old said to my wife "did you tell dad what happened at school?" (he's been in some trouble before so I kinda got a little worried that he screwed up)
His story is as follows:
"I was standing in the lunch room talking to my girlfriend and this kid bigger than me, comes up behind me and gets me in a headlock/choke hold. I elbowed him as hard as I could in the gut, he let go, I tuned and pushed him. He fell down and everyone was laughing at him."
I asked if he got in trouble and he said that none of the teachers got involved. He said that he told the nearest teacher and that she would let the principal know. My wife spoke w/ the principal and he said he would 'check into things."
I told him that I'm very proud of him defending himself and that he did the right thing. I've always taught my children the following:
1) If someone is talking trash, or verbally harassing you (either at school or not) to tell them to pound sand and walk away to make their personal space bigger. If they bring the fight to you and it escalates, defend yourself at all cost.
2) If someone puts their hand on you first (at school or not) you immediately, and with force, defend yourself at all cost. You might get in trouble with the school (which I will adamantly protest) but will NOT get in any trouble with me or mom.
3) You are not allowed to take the first punch under any circumstances.
4) You are not allowed to verbally escalate a situation to provoke someone else to take the first shot.
I believe he did good, and I made sure I told him as much and how proud I was of him. :yesway
His story is as follows:
"I was standing in the lunch room talking to my girlfriend and this kid bigger than me, comes up behind me and gets me in a headlock/choke hold. I elbowed him as hard as I could in the gut, he let go, I tuned and pushed him. He fell down and everyone was laughing at him."
I asked if he got in trouble and he said that none of the teachers got involved. He said that he told the nearest teacher and that she would let the principal know. My wife spoke w/ the principal and he said he would 'check into things."
I told him that I'm very proud of him defending himself and that he did the right thing. I've always taught my children the following:
1) If someone is talking trash, or verbally harassing you (either at school or not) to tell them to pound sand and walk away to make their personal space bigger. If they bring the fight to you and it escalates, defend yourself at all cost.
2) If someone puts their hand on you first (at school or not) you immediately, and with force, defend yourself at all cost. You might get in trouble with the school (which I will adamantly protest) but will NOT get in any trouble with me or mom.
3) You are not allowed to take the first punch under any circumstances.
4) You are not allowed to verbally escalate a situation to provoke someone else to take the first shot.
I believe he did good, and I made sure I told him as much and how proud I was of him. :yesway