I know who you speak of. The problem is, he doesn't think he is doing anything wrong.
They never do. It is odd how people rationalize a situation like this. The mind can twist and turn until reality is not part of the thought process anymore. Yeah, I have been through 2 divorces that both turned ugly.
Being gone sounds like an excellent idea. I see you are a man of honor. Willing to step up and take a stand to help. These days that can be a scary thing to do.
The people pay me to help them, I might as well give a freebie once in a while.