Rambone, you are now getting to the point of dangerous with your little advice column. Adults sleeping next to newborns is deadly. Period. No level of liberal warm and fuzzy hope this doesn't put my child in therapy because they are alone, even though they don't have the psyche for self realization yet will every make it safer. Maybe next time I go on a run when a mother smothers her child to death because she fell asleep while breast feeding in the upright position, I will send you her number. Or the dad that takes a nap for only a moment with his infant and only drapes his arm over the kid, is now screwed up for life. You might want to try to live in a world of risk vs benefit.
^^ This.
Its flat out dangerous.