Not arguing, merely pointing out the [STRIKE]stupidity[/STRIKE], um, lower-level logic that necessarily accompanies some of the comments by giving an example of it myself. You know, reduce it to the extreme/ridiculous.
Lots of "He shoulda done this" and "I'd have done that." ALL of which are completely irrelevant and pointless since the commenter wasn't there and doesn't have all the information, nor was he in the situation at the time. (I mean, doesn't it strike you as utterly contradictory that we don't have enough information to determine who was the aggressor, but in the same thread with the same available information, there's enough information to know that this or that person made a wrong/right decision? How does that work, excatly?) It's easy to be the internet commando when you have the luxury of second-guessing someone else from the comfort of your own home not having been in the situation. Even being in a similar situation wouldn't be enough. The circumstances are always different, and different people are always prioritizing those circumstances differently. No one knows for sure what they would do in that situation.
I'm all for debriefing by proxy on the hypothetical level. But INGO has a nasty habit of blurring that line.
Like I said, it is easy to armchair quarterback this thing. So we are in agreement. But this is an internet forum, and everyone is going to infer stories differently and post about it. It is the nature of the beast.