That is the part I thought about. When I was in highschool, I ran 80 miles per week for track and field. I ate about 3500-4000 calories per day and had to eat as much as I could so that my weight wouldn't go too low.
There is an obesity issue these days, and I can see the mandates for a healthy well balanced lunch helping the majority of kids. But what happens when kids aren't the norm. Churchmous' grand daughter is a great example. She NEEDS a different diet, and is being harassed for not conforming. That is not right.
You've identified one of the big issues with the mandates and then endorse it in your next paragraph. I'm sure you were not the only athlete at your school, you were likely part of a sizeable minority where a one size fits all approach will not work. It is not just one kid who is an exception, it is many kids. There are plenty of high school football players and wrestlers who are much bigger and stronger than the average grown man walking around on the streets. A salad and a banana won't cut it. What about runners such as yourself? Do these Obama meals have the carbs you need?
High school kids generally carry much less body fat and have higher metabolism than they will at any point in their adult lives. Yet we are worried about these kids being porkers, and younger kids, what are they eating at home? It must be 2 slices of school pizza making them fat and not the damned inactivity and whatever garbage their parents are feeding them. Is it food or laziness? Does it matter? Why don't we just let fatties be fat? If they truly want to put forth the effort to lose weight, they will.