Went to my sister's house for Christmas and it was a good time, and well my boyfriend who carries was carrying a gun on him today, no one can really see it cause he had it covered up, and well when he got up my sister saw it this was 4 hrs we where there, and told her HUSBAND to take all the kids in the backroom, so he did that. My mom told me to tell him to take the gun to the car and my boyfriend said NO b/c hes not going to leave it since it cannot be locked up. So couple minutes later we left. So now she said that she doesn't want him around her kids any more because hes being disrespectful, by carrying a gun on him around the kids. So does that mean shes not coming here for anything any more, b/c I know i'm not stopping nor he will stop going to family things.. I am going to post was she was saying on facebook, she also blocked me on there. Here is some of the things she said..
MY SISTER:About the gun. I don't care if you both own guns. I don't care if you have them at your house or in your car. I have expressed to Erin that I do not want them around my kids. And Ashlie has said that she doesn't want them around my boyfriends girl kid. Michael hes on the thread, I am sorry if Erin did not tell you that we didn't want you carrying a gun around our kids. Our reasons are very clear. I am related to 5 cops and I am friends with many more. None of them have worked a situation where a person has defended themselves or their family against a robber and used a gun. I can name many instances where someone was killed with a gun unnecessarily. Erin will fill you in on the stories, Kris and Missy, Frank was a Sheriff that Josh went to school with and he was shot and killed while on duty by a 15 year old kid. A friend of ours had their house broken into and their gun safe turned over and all the guns stolen. My friend in high school Ben was mistaken for an animal in a bush while on a hunting trip and almost lost his leg. I could go on, but I won't. Michael, I don't want you to think that this is exclusively to you because I found out that my friend is purposely not telling me that she bought a gun and has it in her house so my kids are not allowed to spend the night over there or be over there without me. I don't want you to think that we don't like you. I do like you. I think that you are funny and fun to be around. I thought you carrying a gun on your belt to Christmas dinner when you know our wishes was disrespectful and it shows that you don't like us and you don't respect us and I am sorry for that.
MY BOYFRIEND: and i guess i should have read the whole thing first, i believe it is disrespectful for you to try and take away rights given by the constitution just because you don't like something, and fyi you did ask erin what adaline was cryin about when you started pmsing
MY SISTERS: do not fear guns. I fear people that use them out of fear and anger. You will not carry them around my kids and if you refuse to leave it in my car, you will not be welcome around my kids.
MY BOYFRIEND:well then i guess that is the case then so be it
leaving firearms in cars is unresponsible because that is how guns get stolen and into the hands of wrong people which cause senseless crimes and murders... but i was specifically told the reason they were rushed off to the bedroom in the first place was because i was legally carrying my firearm
SISTER: I am done with this conversation. You apparently don't give a **** about other people's feelings. My kids are not taught to fear guns. I was not taught to fear guns. You guys are making me out to be the bad guy, even when I told you that I like to be around you. You have disrespected not only our wishes but Ashlie's as well. Maybe you will understand if you ever have kids. I am sorry that my kids will not be around to meet them as long as you continue to be disrespectful.
BOYFRIEND: if i ever have kids as soon as they are old enough to understand they will be holding firearms.. a don't think i want them to be around you or your brat kids..disrespectfull is your kids telling erin that she is stupid or that they don't like her give respect and respect will be given
And then later today my brother-in-law well use to be they disown us now. This is what he had to say.
Brother-in-law:
It's about time I stepped in here. First of all -- Dylan has been around guns. He has taken gun safety classes and has shot a gun. It's not about us teaching them that guns are evil AT ALL. It's about us nicely asking that you not bring a weapon around our children and you blatantly ignoring the request. He was WRESTLING WITH YOU (which by the way ... See Morea kid who doesn't like you probably wouldn't do) and his foot was KICKING THE PISTOL ON YOUR BELT. Do you not see the problem with that? I don't give a **** that you have a gun, though I will admit I think you are a bit immature to have one. A responsible gun owner would not talk about getting his gun out and shooting people when they cut you off in traffic. I don't care if people do cocaine -- just don't do it around my kids. That is the issue here. PERIOD.
And, on top of all of this, you have resorted to talking bad about a three year old and an eight year old. Kinda goes back to the whole maturity thing I mentioned above. I do not believe in any way that they ever called you guys stupid. I think ANY ONE who knows them and knows us can vouch for that -- they have never called anyone stupid and we ... See Morewould most certainly not allow them to say, That being said, it is entirely possible that Adaline WHO IS A THREE YEAR OLD has said that she didn't like you or Erin. SHE IS A THREE YEAR OLD. She says things like that. She was tired. It was after her bed time. Maybe she didn't have a nap. If you take what a 3 year old says to heart, maybe that's because you are operating on the same level. So I guess that explains it. She tells me sometimes that she doesn't like me. That's what little girls do. They are moody. But you, Michael, crossed the line by calling them names. They are children. And you, Erin, crossed the line by not defending your niece and your nephew when your boyfriend called them names. So I'm sorry for both of you. Michael, you are not welcome around our children any longer. Not because of you own a gun, but because of your attitude and the hateful words you said about a THREE YEAR OLD AND AN EIGHT YEAR OLD. And BTW, it wasn't just us who was upset about you having the gun.
So have a nice life. Enjoy it. Merry Christmas. It was nice knowing you guys-- especially you, Erin, who I have known since you were in elementary school. I genuinely enjoyed what time we spent together. Too bad you had to ignore a parents' wishes for the safety of their children so you can feel like a badass with your gun on your side -- at the family Christmas dinner. Bravo. Well done. A Joy to the freaking world.
MY SISTER:About the gun. I don't care if you both own guns. I don't care if you have them at your house or in your car. I have expressed to Erin that I do not want them around my kids. And Ashlie has said that she doesn't want them around my boyfriends girl kid. Michael hes on the thread, I am sorry if Erin did not tell you that we didn't want you carrying a gun around our kids. Our reasons are very clear. I am related to 5 cops and I am friends with many more. None of them have worked a situation where a person has defended themselves or their family against a robber and used a gun. I can name many instances where someone was killed with a gun unnecessarily. Erin will fill you in on the stories, Kris and Missy, Frank was a Sheriff that Josh went to school with and he was shot and killed while on duty by a 15 year old kid. A friend of ours had their house broken into and their gun safe turned over and all the guns stolen. My friend in high school Ben was mistaken for an animal in a bush while on a hunting trip and almost lost his leg. I could go on, but I won't. Michael, I don't want you to think that this is exclusively to you because I found out that my friend is purposely not telling me that she bought a gun and has it in her house so my kids are not allowed to spend the night over there or be over there without me. I don't want you to think that we don't like you. I do like you. I think that you are funny and fun to be around. I thought you carrying a gun on your belt to Christmas dinner when you know our wishes was disrespectful and it shows that you don't like us and you don't respect us and I am sorry for that.
MY BOYFRIEND: and i guess i should have read the whole thing first, i believe it is disrespectful for you to try and take away rights given by the constitution just because you don't like something, and fyi you did ask erin what adaline was cryin about when you started pmsing
MY SISTERS: do not fear guns. I fear people that use them out of fear and anger. You will not carry them around my kids and if you refuse to leave it in my car, you will not be welcome around my kids.
MY BOYFRIEND:well then i guess that is the case then so be it
leaving firearms in cars is unresponsible because that is how guns get stolen and into the hands of wrong people which cause senseless crimes and murders... but i was specifically told the reason they were rushed off to the bedroom in the first place was because i was legally carrying my firearm
SISTER: I am done with this conversation. You apparently don't give a **** about other people's feelings. My kids are not taught to fear guns. I was not taught to fear guns. You guys are making me out to be the bad guy, even when I told you that I like to be around you. You have disrespected not only our wishes but Ashlie's as well. Maybe you will understand if you ever have kids. I am sorry that my kids will not be around to meet them as long as you continue to be disrespectful.
BOYFRIEND: if i ever have kids as soon as they are old enough to understand they will be holding firearms.. a don't think i want them to be around you or your brat kids..disrespectfull is your kids telling erin that she is stupid or that they don't like her give respect and respect will be given
And then later today my brother-in-law well use to be they disown us now. This is what he had to say.
Brother-in-law:
It's about time I stepped in here. First of all -- Dylan has been around guns. He has taken gun safety classes and has shot a gun. It's not about us teaching them that guns are evil AT ALL. It's about us nicely asking that you not bring a weapon around our children and you blatantly ignoring the request. He was WRESTLING WITH YOU (which by the way ... See Morea kid who doesn't like you probably wouldn't do) and his foot was KICKING THE PISTOL ON YOUR BELT. Do you not see the problem with that? I don't give a **** that you have a gun, though I will admit I think you are a bit immature to have one. A responsible gun owner would not talk about getting his gun out and shooting people when they cut you off in traffic. I don't care if people do cocaine -- just don't do it around my kids. That is the issue here. PERIOD.
And, on top of all of this, you have resorted to talking bad about a three year old and an eight year old. Kinda goes back to the whole maturity thing I mentioned above. I do not believe in any way that they ever called you guys stupid. I think ANY ONE who knows them and knows us can vouch for that -- they have never called anyone stupid and we ... See Morewould most certainly not allow them to say, That being said, it is entirely possible that Adaline WHO IS A THREE YEAR OLD has said that she didn't like you or Erin. SHE IS A THREE YEAR OLD. She says things like that. She was tired. It was after her bed time. Maybe she didn't have a nap. If you take what a 3 year old says to heart, maybe that's because you are operating on the same level. So I guess that explains it. She tells me sometimes that she doesn't like me. That's what little girls do. They are moody. But you, Michael, crossed the line by calling them names. They are children. And you, Erin, crossed the line by not defending your niece and your nephew when your boyfriend called them names. So I'm sorry for both of you. Michael, you are not welcome around our children any longer. Not because of you own a gun, but because of your attitude and the hateful words you said about a THREE YEAR OLD AND AN EIGHT YEAR OLD. And BTW, it wasn't just us who was upset about you having the gun.
So have a nice life. Enjoy it. Merry Christmas. It was nice knowing you guys-- especially you, Erin, who I have known since you were in elementary school. I genuinely enjoyed what time we spent together. Too bad you had to ignore a parents' wishes for the safety of their children so you can feel like a badass with your gun on your side -- at the family Christmas dinner. Bravo. Well done. A Joy to the freaking world.
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