Tell your wife she needs to add this duty to her “to do” list. She can fit it in right after the cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing, grocery shopping, lawn mowing, car repairs, wood splitting, etc. Make sure she understands this isn’t just a casual requirement -and also make sure she knows there is a deadline. If she wants to have the kids help that’s on her. Also, you can gently council her the first time she doesn’t remove the .380 cases from the 9mm. However, more severe discipline is necessary if she continues to screw up. The sooner you get a handle on this the better.
Signed,
“Divorced and penniless due to unfair property settlement and alimony payments”