"Just stand up for yourself" doesn't work when you're 130 lbs soaking wet and are being cornered by 5-10 people who are all much bigger than you.
That is modern bullying.
There is no one bully who intimidates everyone. There are cliches, who all take their turn bullying the same students who don't fit in and don't have many friends.
Bullying also has less to do with physical violence than it does with verbal abuse and just general harassment.
It is relentless daily torment and the victim is often quite alone. The teachers won't do anything unless they see an actual fight. The parents won't/can't do anything, but they'll give the "I'm behind you son," speech. Thanks dad, but that really doesn't help a damn thing. Are you going to be behind me when I have to walk through a gauntlet of rednecks who each take a turn punching me in the arm/gut every time I walk to class? Are you going to be behind me when there's nowhere for me to sit at lunch time? Where are you going to be when a group of kids tells me I'm a fag, and no one likes me, and that I'm worthless every, single, day. When they tell me I'm too fat, or I'm too skinny, or my hair is too short, or too long, that my clothes aren't good enough, that I'm so completely unattractive that no one will ever want to be with me. Are you going to be there when my head is slammed into a locker, and no one knows who did it? When I can't carry a book or papers to class without it being knocked out of my hand at least once? Oh yes, that's terribly hilarious. It always got a laugh.
So, **** your dated advice about taking a stand and fighting back.
Guess what, I did take a stand fight back once. It only made things worse. Instead of getting hit in the arm, I got punched in the back of the head. Instead of getting called worthless, I got death threats. Oh they're just kids, they don't mean it. Bull****. You punch a bully and you're just going to make him mad. Even if you beat the ever living **** out of him on Monday, you're going to see him again on Tuesday, and every day after, and he's going to be PISSED.
You ever live your life looking over your shoulder everyday with no one to back you up? Not even someone to just have the balls to say, "hey, leave him alone." No, they just watch.
You try living without hope, alone, in constant fear, and then tell me why kids who kill themselves are "entitled."
That is modern bullying.
There is no one bully who intimidates everyone. There are cliches, who all take their turn bullying the same students who don't fit in and don't have many friends.
Bullying also has less to do with physical violence than it does with verbal abuse and just general harassment.
It is relentless daily torment and the victim is often quite alone. The teachers won't do anything unless they see an actual fight. The parents won't/can't do anything, but they'll give the "I'm behind you son," speech. Thanks dad, but that really doesn't help a damn thing. Are you going to be behind me when I have to walk through a gauntlet of rednecks who each take a turn punching me in the arm/gut every time I walk to class? Are you going to be behind me when there's nowhere for me to sit at lunch time? Where are you going to be when a group of kids tells me I'm a fag, and no one likes me, and that I'm worthless every, single, day. When they tell me I'm too fat, or I'm too skinny, or my hair is too short, or too long, that my clothes aren't good enough, that I'm so completely unattractive that no one will ever want to be with me. Are you going to be there when my head is slammed into a locker, and no one knows who did it? When I can't carry a book or papers to class without it being knocked out of my hand at least once? Oh yes, that's terribly hilarious. It always got a laugh.
So, **** your dated advice about taking a stand and fighting back.
Guess what, I did take a stand fight back once. It only made things worse. Instead of getting hit in the arm, I got punched in the back of the head. Instead of getting called worthless, I got death threats. Oh they're just kids, they don't mean it. Bull****. You punch a bully and you're just going to make him mad. Even if you beat the ever living **** out of him on Monday, you're going to see him again on Tuesday, and every day after, and he's going to be PISSED.
You ever live your life looking over your shoulder everyday with no one to back you up? Not even someone to just have the balls to say, "hey, leave him alone." No, they just watch.
You try living without hope, alone, in constant fear, and then tell me why kids who kill themselves are "entitled."
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