Wasn't "NO" a movie or a Super Hero in the 70's?
Exactly
Kut (has never stalked anyone outside of INGO)
Sorry to be gone so long, long church day.
Wow, a lot has transpired since I was here last. Sorry I tossed something in to cause issue without being here to respond.
Where to start? Well, no I am not a liberal. I know, big surprise. My mother was a liberal and my father a conservative. Yep, one word to describe a childhood like that: CONFUSED!
I guess this is how I can desire to discuss topics and yet hate heated conflict. Discussion = good, argue = bad. How else will we learn to appreciate "other" points of view? To fight or entice others to fight is just a way to remove yourselves from the interaction. But it also helps if you truly desire to know why the other person thinks the way they do. I can't remember the last time someone threw up their hands and said, "that's it, you convinced me!" So, I am not looking for "proselytes" for myself, just teachers.
It took a while to pick through the posts. The largest fracture I think I see is culture v race. While they are different, they are symbiotic and one is difficult to address without the other IMO. To overly identify with either is just as awkward as trying to deny them. And to what purpose?
We are all human which means we are all going to mess up. Where notable differences come in to view (this is talking humans now, not race) is what we do when we find out we have failed, in anything.
One group will say, "oh no, there is no changing the past", "I am lost", I'll just sit here and die.
The second group will ask, "where did I go wrong?" and mentally go back and try to solve the mistake as to avoid it again in the future.
While the first type tend to blame others as to avoid any shame as in fact "being human", the second has to be willing to risk and accept the possibility of failure (and the resultant shame) to eventually improve.
Those among us who identify as being Christian can recall scripture talking about "the refining fire" and being "purified like gold". The process is to add enough heat for the impurities to come to the top and the refiner removes the dross leaving only the purified gold. They say the one who is doing this knows he is done when he can "see himself in his work..."
Anyway, time does go on for both groups. Where will the future find any of us?
Is the inevitable show of our human traits a "set back" or an "end game".
I see a lot of "intellectual competition" going on here but for the life of me I don't know who is the appointed score keeper and what is the prize?
[To paraphrase a quote about another subject "The competition is so fierce only because the rewards are so small" ]
When I come off as "raw" it is usually to try and entice someone who has seldom or never participated to engage and share. This is a community. When I look and see 20-30 members monitoring a site and only 2-3 posting it takes on the feel of professional wrestling. I both want and hope for something more real.
I joke around, my whole family does, my brother is really good at it, I am not. It must be a personality flaw. I have more flaws and issues than everyone here put together. But my desire is to move forward.
I intended nothing malicious in my post. It was, in my life experience, what I have seen occur in the past. It in no way was to infer it is the only possible way it could have been perceived nor that it is the singular "right" way.
So, Kut and anyone out there who have seen the same, different or any tangent of the above from my post, I would like to hear it. Thanks in advance. I continue to learn from you all.
What the **** is race. Which one of you is a member of a race beside the human race.
Liberals Say they are color blind, but bring up race at every turn. It is despicable.
What matters is Borders, culture and language.
France, snails and frogs, French.
England, fish and chips, English.
China, egg foo young, Chinese.
America, Anything from steaks to any foreign food you care to eat, English.
I always get a refund (I know, I know - hush. ), but with the doubling of the standard deduction to $12K, all my itemizing was for naught, and I'm getting about $1200 less back than last year. Not sure how that works, but it is what it is I guess. Maybe it's because I saw more money in my checks all year (without changing my exemption).
Because I do not think any answer would suffice, when the asker has false motives.
The answer has exactly two possibilities. Yes. No. One of those answers have to suffice because they're the only choices, regardless of the motives for the question. It seems there's more around this part of the conversation than meets the eye. And I don't care to know that that is.
What matters is what is necessary for people to coexist peacefully. Live and let live would help a lot with that.
Mongo, I thought about this for a while and the only way I can see to completely separate culture from race is if the two groups in question (using K14's unfettered immigration example) are already racially similar. The example that comes to mind being Tibet, Nepal and China. The peoples of all three countries (yes, I know Tibet isn't really a country anymore but to me it still lives in memory as such) are racially similar (though the Tibetans and the Nepalese are high altitude adapted) by culturally distinct. So while an unrestricted influx of Chinese would not significantly affect the racial make-up of the populations (ignoring the genetic adaptations to high altitude) it would and does severely affect the cultures of the two countries, in the case of Tibet and Nepal for the worse
So tell me jamil... stop beating around the bush and tell us what you really think?
I have been trying to push the star but it won't let me. You are, if nothing else, consistent. Unique is the word I will use to describe you.
What do I gain by rushing?
Do you pay your bills months in advance?