So the guy interested in my craigslist item wanted to pay using PayPal. It didn't take much of a Google search to convince me this was a scam waiting to happen. Might have lost a legit $1400 sale, might have saved myself a whole lot of aggravation. Willing to gamble it was the latter.
I know the folks who operate PayPal are less than enthusiastic about guns in general if not outright hoplophobic, but I have used PayPal for several years without any issues. All disputes have been handled equitably. Whenever I send someone an item after they pay me using PayPal, I ship with Delivery Confirmation / Priority Mail [if using the US postal service], and insure any item over $100.00. Folks generally don't claim delivery failure if they have to sign for a package to receive it.
If he has to come over and meet you in person to pick the item up, he should be able to bring a cashier's check with him. I don't see the point of using Paypal for a FTF deal. Something sounds off. Maybe contact him and tell him that you don't trust Paypal, and he will either need a cashiers check from a LOCAL bank, or a POSTAL money order. If he is as excited as you say, he will go along with your demands.
It's not a firearm, and it's not a shippable item. They would have to come over and pick it up. My fear is that they'd pick it up and then tell their credit card company to reverse the charge, which it seems is very easy to do and PayPal doesn't do much to protect the seller from.
That might not have been enough, but the guy was hyper enthusiastic about the item, like almost creepy about it. Even after I'd agreed to send more pics when I got home (this was all via text message), he kept texting for another 5 or 10 minutes, gushing over how bad he wanted it. I like people to be enthusiastic, but this guy was over the top. That's what gave me the initial squirrelly feeling about the whole deal. Then he's all "I can get it tomorrow, but I just need to use PayPal."
Maybe I'm too suspicious as a result of hanging out with you lot, but it just felt... off.
Yeah, that ^.If he has to come over and meet you in person to pick the item up, he should be able to bring a cashier's check with him.
You're welcome.Maybe I'm too suspicious as a result of hanging out with you lot
If he has to come over and meet you in person to pick the item up, he should be able to bring a cashier's check with him. I don't see the point of using Paypal for a FTF deal. Something sounds off. Maybe contact him and tell him that you don't trust Paypal, and he will either need a cashiers check from a LOCAL bank, or a POSTAL money order. If he is as excited as you say, he will go along with your demands.
It's possible his funds are tied up in paypal, it can take a week to get them transferred into your bank account. It's also possible he is using a credit card. If his cc only has a $2K limit he can't get $1400 for a cash advance. Lower limit cards usually limit the cash advance amount. Or it's possible he is funding from multiple sources, credit card and paypal balance. Is he willing to tag it as personal "gift" so there's no fee's incurred on your end?
I know the folks who operate PayPal are less than enthusiastic about guns in general if not outright hoplophobic, but I have used PayPal for several years without any issues. All disputes have been handled equitably. Whenever I send someone an item after they pay me using PayPal, I ship with Delivery Confirmation / Priority Mail [if using the US postal service], and insure any item over $100.00. Folks generally don't claim delivery failure if they have to sign for a package to receive it.