if i recall correctly, if there is a restraining order, BOTH parties have to adhere. meaning, if party a has an order against party b and party b has to stay 500 feet from party a, then party a cannot purposely put himself somewhere that party b is just so party b has to move. well say said place is a cigar shop that b frequents and a has never been, but knowing b hangs out there, a cannot start hanging out there just to **** off b. so if the police get a restraining order against you, then you win because they would have to stay away from you as well. win!