My wife's oldest brother didn't make it. Apparently done in by a chopper that should have been down for maintenance and too heavy a load of barb wire.
My best friend is gone 22 years now. He never got over it.
So was it worth it? I think about that and realizing we would not have enjoyed the benefits of the petro-dollar without that war... I still scratch my head over what is the value of it, of them, of us. But it's all besides the point isn't it? The people who stand ready are what stand between us and all the evils mankind can dream up.
PS,
I say my brother-in-law didn't make it. But he's been around a couple of times checking on his little sister.