Mercy, I have seen and been in this conversation on dozens of forums (and a number of times on this one). OP my best advice to is to try one at a gun range or from a friend and do not be afraid to buy one in your price range if you like them. The Taurus haters will always hate them and the lovers will always love them. I personally have no problem with them( yes I do like them) and own a few. Have had very good experience with their customer service. But you need to decide for yourself. The discussion on this issue is a lot like politics, a whole lot of ideology and very little compromise...IMHO. Good Luck in what ever you choose.