I started out with a Ruger 9mm and then went to a 10mil then a 40 cal and by the age of 25 been shooting 45acp which is good but makes a huge differance on the pistol,I had for about a year an actual Colt 1911 made in 1918 shot great close and far but wanted something with more in the mag so I went with a Springfield XDM 5" service tactical it shoots great for what I need it for I open carry it, and it CC pretty good as well now I'm 46 I can honestly say the guy with the 9mm popin almost always takes cover when the bark of the 45 acp shout back! The military was just going to 9mm when I went in and now they finally are going back or at least the special forces to the 45acp ask any WW11 vet that used one in the pacific which he prefer the 9mm or the 45acp the look you get from him says it all, just my opion and