My wife carries a S&W bodyguard 380. She is a small woman 5'7" @ 120lbs. The recoil is stout for a 380 due to the lightweight of the firearm. But the lightweight is one of the reasons she will carry it. The firearm you leave at home is the one that does you no good. During summer months she carries it in her purse but is very conscious about wearing it strapped over her neck and not just on her shoulder, she also has a good situational awareness about strangers approaching. When she gets uncomfortable due to events occurring around her, she goes into the purse and has it in her hand at the ready (safety still on). During winter months she has an outside the waist holster (tight jeans, so no IWB ) she feels confident in maintaining concealment due to sweaters and jackets etc.