I have heard and read that the lower the bore axis the softer the recoil due to the leverage. It brings the recoil back into the hand vs. back over the top of the hand.
From what I know (have not shot all of these), the Glocks, Ruger SR, and M&P have low bore axis. This may help. I have heard good things about all 3 of these .40s.
I have shot a friend's Glock .40 and I would say it was similar to shooting a 9mm. I did not notice the recoil being that bad and I am not a brute. That said, I was not doing quick follow up shots and I am not a great pistol marksman.
Just my 2 cents!
From what I know (have not shot all of these), the Glocks, Ruger SR, and M&P have low bore axis. This may help. I have heard good things about all 3 of these .40s.
I have shot a friend's Glock .40 and I would say it was similar to shooting a 9mm. I did not notice the recoil being that bad and I am not a brute. That said, I was not doing quick follow up shots and I am not a great pistol marksman.
Just my 2 cents!