A lot of people use "out the door" when buying vehicles. It's a good way to know what you want to pay when comparing at different dealers because most of them have different fees. Out the door is the money that comes out of your wallet, not necessarily what the seller gets (he has to split it with the .gov).
100% on this. Out the door is a very common term on fairly large purchases, such as furniture, car, gun, etc. I've never had anyone "misunderstand" the term. It has been refused a time or 2, but never misunderstood.
It's still a sellers market, whether it is an "assault weapon" or not, guns are flying off the shelves at all the LGS's, and anything that already has a reasonable price is going to sell. I understand why you're mad, I too have been on both sides of the tables at gun shows. Out the door does typically mean tax included, this may be a term exclusive to gun shows, but that is what it means in my mind. But guns are the only commodity that people expect the dealer to "eat the tax" so to speak, that I am aware of. We don't go to jewelry or furniture stores and expect the same thing. At least I don't, I just expect that sales tax will be collected by any retail establishment. Like I said in an earlier post, I think the landscape is changing in the gun community.
I do go to the jewelry/furniture store and deal with OTD pricing. I'm not expecting them to eat the tax, it is just an easier way to negotiate on a final end price, and move back from there.
I use the "OTD" purchasing technique on every major purchase we make.
Furniture/jewelry/guns....everything.
Sometimes folks are willing to deal....sometimes not.
My experience exactly.