Bunnykid68
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Just looking around, making sure BK is behaving.
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Just looking around, making sure BK is behaving.
Dear Penthouse, I saw this sexy cowboy, he was looking the wrong way and couldn't see me. What should I throw at him next time to get his attention?
Somewhere in all this chaos I might like to meet someone, after all misery loves company, right? I sure would appreciate others filling me in on the rules and the scams of dating. What should I look out for and be aware of?
I see a whole new thread regarding the horrors of online dating. Although I must admit it has offered me lots of comic relief to share with my girlfriends.
What are other singles doing? Are there any good, free online dating sites? How do you meet normal people in a busy world? What are the lines to watch out for? How do I identify the lies? Why is it so hard to meet happy, well adjusted, middle aged men?
I was just talking with my best friend last night about dating. (She's 47, I'm 52.) We came to the conclusion that by the time people get to our age, they're all either crazy, broken, or just plain scared. I think I'm a little of all three.
Some just had bad luck, bad timing.
Some suffered the loss of a loved one.
Some were married to idiots.
Somewhere in all this chaos I might like to meet someone, after all misery loves company, right? I sure would appreciate others filling me in on the rules and the scams of dating. What should I look out for and be aware of?
Someone once told me that because I am a good person I mistakenly believe that everyone else is a good person too. It makes me too trusting and vulnerable. When I was married I was sheltered from most of the evils of the world. Now I have to fight my own demons and keep them from the door.
I am naïve. I had no idea so many people lie and only care about themselves. My love life has definitely been the stuff sitcoms are made of.
I used to think that I made bad dating decisions, but I realized that most of my bad decisions chose me. I didn't actively or consciously chose them. I was just weak and fell in love with their charm. I didn't necessarily condone their flaws but I didn't make an issue of them either. Their flaws were not mine to judge so I tried not to.
The problem is that I wasn't actively fishing. I just talked to whoever talked to me. This obviously hasn't worked out well or I wouldn't be whining to all of you.
I have a weird schedule. I work second shift so late nights and weekends are my only real free times. I have no time to actively meet single, normal, eligible men. That is if they even exist.
So I got this bright idea to try online dating. I thought it was a great idea since I could choose exactly what I was looking for or at least weed out the guys that wouldn't be interested in me or my lifestyle.
I carry a gun and rescue animals. These are my two main quirks that guys need to get over if they want to date me. I am also only 5’ tall. Some guys have hang ups about height. Go figure.
I had read somewhere what a great site POF was for meeting nice people. Let me just say, they lied. I turned my profile off after the first couple weeks because it was so overwhelming. Now it is time to try again. I have my profile all friend zoned up just to keep the traffic down. I am trying to get up the nerve to rewrite it and actively fish.
I see a whole new thread regarding the horrors of online dating. Although I must admit it has offered me lots of comic relief to share with my girlfriends.
What are other singles doing? Are there any good, free online dating sites? How do you meet normal people in a busy world? What are the lines to watch out for? How do I identify the lies? Why is it so hard to meet happy, well adjusted, middle aged men?
It AIN't......like I a'fore in 1 these threads.....most......would'n know a good 1 if he was stand'n on their toes......
Um, yeah. It is. My toes ain't been stood on in a long time.
I have a weird schedule. I work second shift so late nights and weekends are my only real free times. I have no time to actively meet single, normal, eligible men.
I have to agree with this. There's nothing wrong with being picky as long as our houses aren't made of glass.
My view is; why should I have to settle? Life is too short to settle. I am a complete package. It is only reasonable to expect any potential suitor to be as grounded as I am. I am a good, mentally stable catch. Someone doesn't deserve me just because they think I am cute. I am much more than cute. I am an acute bundle of restless energy ready and able to skip freely through the woods and paths wanting to experience the natural joys of life. I don't have time for the tv watchers and the sleepers. Let's run laughing through the park instead of settling to watch it pass us by.
I want my golden years to be sprinkled with fairy dust instead of dread. If I die in my sleep I want to have died happy. So I only want to play with the happy kids.
I am not the kind of girl for the slackers and the non believers. I am extremely well balanced. I have experienced many life changing potential excuses and I have conquered them all on my own. I expect my suitors to be as brave. Do not approach me unless you are a real man in control of your own life. I just want to hear how you will accomplish goals not why you can't.
Save the sad stories whose endings can never change. I just want to create new memories and laughs. My suitors have to be able to dream and follow them.
Happy and spiritually free are probably the most important traits I am looking for. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to get involved with people who are too self absorbed in the past or who don't have the traits I value most. I know what I want, I have every right not to want to settle for less.
crazy thought, but have you considered getting a 9-5 job?
I get regular emails from weirdos .......
hey, I resemble that. those emails described legitimate overseas investment opportunities. well, I'm purty sure some were legit.
I wish that's all those emails described. LOL Some even had pics.........
Lol did you get mine?