I can’t help who you hung out with 30 years ago, and perhaps some things have changed. Things have changed in every party.I use to be one about 30 years ago, it wasn't for me. The group I was in was mighty liberal or immoral IMO. I just couldn't stomach the garbage they spewed. Democrats have been anti constitution since I can remember so the only other choice was Republicans. Libertarian is great if you a liberal, and secular.
Of course, I understand there is a secular contingent in them, how could there not be, they are live and let live, at the most basic level. There’s an awful lot of secularism in the Republican Party too. And that’s what I call hypocrisy.
The L’s are big tent, and while that has its disadvantages, theoretically they should be able to win, when the R’s go down in flames parsing out their tent. Theoretically. So far I’m not doing very well.
Your last sentence seems pretty offensive to me unless you intend the classical liberal definition, which I don’t think you do.
Upthread you nailed it when you talked about how unwilling people are to change, they’ve picked their camp and they can’t bear to change their mind. But here you are shoehorning people into a box from a notion you gained 30 years ago.
Why do any of us think we need to fit in any of their categories?