Homeschooling......fill me in

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  • Cameramonkey

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    So no disrespect to anyone but how does the child develop social skills?

    Homeschoolers end up gravitating around one another. Its a self supporting network of families. Plus they get out with us and learn real world interactions as we run our errands, etc.

    Its not like a homeschool kid never leaves the house.

    And as a bonus, they dont have to deal with as much of the negative social skills that public school kids have to deal with. We can address the problems at our own pace, not when some jackwagon's neglected degenerate kid decides its time our kid learns what not to do.

    So tonight's lesson for the older monkey (12) was home ec/handyman skills. He learned how to replace a frayed space heater cord for $8 instead of buying a new one for $30. :rockwoot:

    (wild tangent warning)
    And he also learned a valuable lesson in self reliance. He prefers his apples quartered and cored. (He has some sensory issues, and is a little delayed) Normally me or Mrs Monkey do it for him. And before this week we have never really had a good excuse. We have been encouraging him to do it for himself because he has been shown how to and can, but prefers we do it for him. Not anymore. *wrings hands like an evil genius*


    Earlier this week when the weather turned nice and he and his 9yo sister were playing outside, he asked for my old leatherman Juice to carve on a stick. I couldnt find it so I gave him one of the Barlow knives I gave my late father for Father's day about the time I was his age. He had a blast. (and subsequently earned a right of passage by taking a layer of skin off his finger :D)
    Tonight he asked for an apple cut up for a snack, and I realized what happened this week. So I informed him that he had two choices (after this apple); He could take on the responsibility as a young man and cut his own apple, or he could relinquish that right and give back Grandpa's knife and I would continue to cut his apples for him. He wasn't thrilled but understood. We'll see what happens.
     

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    Oh, and I don’t yet consider my kids in this category, but generally speaking homeschooled kids are more socialized and better mannered and more articulate than the average public school kid. I’ve seen it firsthand.

    (But we are working on it)
     

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    I asked that kinda as a loaded question as a Drill Sergeant I was the receiving end of a few Home Schooled children with poor results.
    With a few exceptions the kids could not understand negative people and basically mean intercity kids would prey on them, from my observation they appeared several years behind the other kids in social skills.
    Don’t beat me up I am just reporting what I had to deal with. The few that were exceptionally good lived in isolated areas like Alaska and such that would form sports teams and spend summers with other kids.
    Again I am not attempting to pi$$ on anyone’s leg or judge how they choose to raise the little monsters.
    I personally was glad to get rid of them during the school day.

    BTW
    My daughter was about 7 my wife was complaining nonstop about a loose tooth she had. I grabbed my Gerber off my belt snatched the kid and promptly broke her permanent front tooth.
    Do not pull your kids teeth when you have been drinking!
     

    PistolBob

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    All my grandkids are home schooled. They are in everything. Swimming team, girl scouts, boy scouts, little league baseball, gymnastics, you name it. During their home schooling they also participate in Co-Op events where there can be 50-70 kids. Home schooling has given them the opportunity to visit museums in Chicago, and take trips for less during the normal "off seasons". Some have been to Washington DC a couple times (Pro Life March) and toured the Smithsonian, Congress, and the various monuments and memorials.

    Plenty of chances for socialization.
     

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    So no disrespect to anyone but how does the child develop social skills?

    Being around adults frequently and being around other kids at Church, Co-op, 4-H, jobs, etc., etc., etc....

    ...and frankly, I'm not interested in my kids being socialized to a lot of things in public schools.
     

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    A lot of good input here...but just do it.

    We took our son out after various government education experiments failed. From Jr Hi on he did home and online only. Scored in the top 1% of the SAT. My 13yo daughter could pass the entrance exam to any college out there. Quality education beats social indoctrination any day of the week.

    A couple of years ago we were at a local breakfast where Mitch Daniels was speaking. He went around the crowd chatting with folks and then stopped and spent about a half hour talking to our daughter; he then came up to us and said "you home school don't you" he said he could tell because they were always more intelligent, well spoken and outgoing than anyone coming out of government schools.
     

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    And dont worry about college. Its no big deal to most colleges. My MiL works in admissions and they dont bat an eye. The worst thing that happens is the kid is on academic probation the first year or semester to make sure they can hack it.
     

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    Oh, and I don’t yet consider my kids in this category, but generally speaking homeschooled kids are more socialized and better mannered and more articulate than the average public school kid. I’ve seen it firsthand.

    (But we are working on it)

    That's been my experience with other HS kids also. Better mannered, better social skills.

    Surely there are HS kids that are terribly educated. And I have seen it firsthand that there are parents that don't take the HS thing seriously enough. They are "protecting" their kids, but leaving them ignorant.

    These kids, however, are the minority in the HS circles in our area. VERY few of them. Instead, most of the HS community here have very educated parents (one or both with bachelor's or graduate degrees, several PhDs). I have a graduated degree, my wife an BA in Education, and we are somewhat typical in the HS community around here.


    It's not just about socialization, but the *kind* of socialization. My kids are carted all over by DW who is doing her best to give them every opportunity for interaction and exploration. My kids have it SO MUCH better than any public school kid. The environment is better and safer, the food is better, the hours are more productively spent, they have more play time, they do more activities, take more field trips, and get to do all kinds of things PS kids don't.
     

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    We've made the decision to homeschool. We're writing the divorce letter to the school system and it will be turned it as soon as they get back in the building.
     

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    We've made the decision to homeschool. We're writing the divorce letter to the school system and it will be turned it as soon as they get back in the building.

    You won't regret it.

    Lots of good advice in this thread. The only thing I would add is that most new homeschooling parents tend to overthink and overdo it. As time goes on, you'll see that you can do a lot more with your kids in a much shorter amount of time than public or private schools.

    If you and your wife are Christian, check out Catholic Schoolhouse and Classical Conversations. They are excellent programs and both seem to draw high quality folks.

    God bless you and your family.
     

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    Classical Conversations is already on the list. We met a local mom who has put 3 kids all the way through homeschooling and has 4th one in 10 grade. She helped us out a lot about getting plugged into the local scene.
     

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    Best of luck to you. Its an adventure. In time you will find there is LOTS of support for it. (if you havent already) Facebook groups, at least down here, are very plentiful.

    And of course continue to reach out to Mrs Monkey.
     

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    Good for you guys BT! It’s a labor of love you won’t regret.

    Let me know if you want any help getting resources and such. Usually the problem is too many options, not too few!
     

    IndyDave1776

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    We've made the decision to homeschool. We're writing the divorce letter to the school system and it will be turned it as soon as they get back in the building.

    Awesome! I hadn't noticed this thread until just now. I noticed that there were multiple recommendations for the Abeka curriculum. I highly recommend it myself. I watched a girl use that curriculum through the end if Fourth Grade while her mother was focused inward on being depressed and was less than useless. Her grandparents were fixated on her needing to be in school, well, because reasons, that they on one hand threw a running tantrum over her being homeschooled and finally offered to pay her tuition to ANY school as long as it was a school. She picked Heritage Christian (NE Indy) and tested in to start sixth grade. Just for fun, she tested for public school which would have had her starting at 7th grade. Hard to argue with results like that.
     

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    It was the very best decision we ever made !
    I can remember one time at the local police department when I was still a bail agent.
    My son would come along with me on many occasions while I worked and that day the desk officer called me back and asked if the kid was my son ? I said that he was and the officer responded by saying he had never seen such a well mannered polite kid his age and asked how I did it ?
    I told him that we homeschooled our kids.
    The officer couldnt get over how well he communicated and presented himeself.

    Public schools are 80% of the reason we are facing the lazy and unable to communicate generation we now have before us and why socialism is a real possibility in the the United States Of America.

    Invest in your kids !!! It's so worth it and the dividends are awesome !
     
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