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  • canav844

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    I've been called a gun fanatic, I explain that I'm just well educated; if they understand that great, if they don't, well I'm a big boy and I've got a thick skin. Everybody has their own interests, and for the most part I am very willing to accept that. But I do caution you, you are a teenager, the context in which you display your interests may raise concern with those who's lack of context, understanding or misperception of intent or context; could very rapidly make life very difficult for you do to being at what is considered an impressionable and volatile age. Monitor your own behaviors and make sure that it's not other behaviors that also trigger such responses. I hear so often from others the "oh the line at the grocery store is so long I'm gonna shoot myself" and such flippant hyperbolic comments, not only have the ability to carry serious consequences, but there is a certain development to the understanding the weight of those words for those that understand the power and access to the means. Awareness of such word selection and tempered demeanor are something that developed with age exposure and practice of carrying a firearm at all time. Consequences and responsibilities so immense, that many have a hard time grasping and understanding; that to reach a point of comfort with them is hard for some to understand let alone reach; and it is my personal belief that there are people out there who fear that, and in turn the people who have reached that point of acceptance of responsibility, consequence and totality of actions.

    When it comes to people that I interact with under any regularity there are those who I will discuss firearms with, and that list is fairly short; and are all people who I know how they will respond before the issue is raised. I have no problem if a stranger sees me OCing in town, I will not however bring up firearms with friends, co-workers, professors, family members who I know oppose them, nor do I make any efforts to force my position onto them, however if they raise the issue I am well educated and polite. A pragmatic and factual approach has helped me open the eyes of several individuals, to look at and consider the events of the world surrounding them, to at least open their minds to it being a matter of individual choice (from the no guns= no gun violence stance). Discretion can be your friend, and save you frustration and trouble. It is not up to me to make the world think exactly as I do (it would likely be boring anyways).

    I have also found it very important to make the abstract talk of firearms very logical and factual, not emotional, not personal; in normal discussion this helps portray a very rational position, so that if someone does choose to press the issue with me they are at "guns scare me" long before I've exhausted a fraction of statistics relating to crime, gun use, and gun control. To be called a gun nut, gun fanatic, etc and be the most level headed person in the room can do wonders to dispel the claims made against responsible citizens and enthusiasts. Keeping things logical and not personal also helps me separate the attack on the image portrayed to them from an attack on myself as an individual; this prevents me from getting mad, angry, offended and a whole long list of adjectives, so even when I am around many individuals that do not share my points of view, I am not in a world that hates me.
     

    dubsac

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    as you get older you will learn to
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    squirrelhntr

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    RELAX, take a deep breath and watch a few 2nd Amendment, Ted Nugent interviews on you tube! You will feel better and not so alone!
    :rockwoot:This excellent advice. ALWAYS works for me. I would think there are hundreds of millions of people who think like Uncle Ted. I listen to Ted Nugent 1970's rock as my back ground music as I surf INGO. "Hey Baby"
     
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    mike8170

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    Just remember, they are products of their upbringing and total bombardment of the liberal left. Feel lucky that you were raised differently where everything isn't "no, thats bad."
     

    nicajack

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    As stated above, ignore their ignorance, remarks and just develop the attitude of "consider the source!" Just take your own road as you see fit. The old phrase "birds of a feather flock together" is very much based in fact. hang with like-minded people, and you will be much happier.
    I don't associate with people who don't fish and /or shoot. They are not my kind of people and I just don't have any desire to be around them. We would have nothing in common. I have always sort of had a different drummer, and gone my own way. Am quite comfortable doing just about anything alone. Learned to be self sufficient in most things.
    LIBERALISM IS A MENTAL DISORDER!! Just live with that in mind and avoid the nuts.... And if outright confronted, always stick up for yourself. If you don't, nobody else will. After awhile, those others won't bother you any more.....
     

    Archbishop

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    I hate getting called insane because I like guns. I hate being called a murder because I hunt. I hate people saying I'm going to grow up and kill people because I like guns. I hate people saying I'm a idiot because I spend my money on guns. I HATE THE FACT THAT ALMOST EVERYONE I KNOEW IS LIBERAL!
    Time to make new friends. Or switch to decaf. Which ever works for you. Life's too short to bent out of shape. :)
     

    superman63086

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    Try being married to someone whose family does not agree with or like guns. Given my family grew up with 40-50 guns in the house. Not exactly an easy way to go. It took quite a while for my wife to warm up to the idea of having them in the house.
     

    sloughfoot

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    The Texas State Rifle Association has an outstanding Junior rifle program.

    In fact, a Junior from Texas WON the Presidents 100 rifle match at Camp Perry a few years ago He won by beating over 1400 competitors. His name is Chris Atkins.

    Tell your dad to help you get involved with like minded juniors and adults. There is a range near you with a High power program.

    You have plenty of friends and Uncles that you have yet to meet. More importantly, girls shoot rifles too. Lots of girls.
     

    actaeon277

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    Have a copy of debunking gun myths with you.
    When all else fails, say, "It must be comforting to let Hollywood do your thinking for you, saving you all that trouble." Then say, "Baaaaaaa."

    But always remain calm. Smile. Be responsible. Sooner or later, it might start to dawn on them.
     

    sepe

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    I hate getting called insane because I like guns. I hate being called a murder because I hunt. I hate people saying I'm going to grow up and kill people because I like guns. I hate people saying I'm a idiot because I spend my money on guns. I HATE THE FACT THAT ALMOST EVERYONE I KNOEW IS LIBERAL!

    I thought you wanted to be a scout sniper? ;)

    What annoys me the most is that they don't listen to sense. Mostly annoyed not angry

    Don't worry. As you get older, they'll become even dumber. I had a professor a few semesters ago that is a lifetime NRA member, a member of GOA, and several other organizations. I heard her say plenty of very ignorant things about guns. She didn't listen to sense either. At some point, you'll get to the point that you feel more sorry for the idiots than anything. You'll still be annoyed but you'll feel sorry for the idiots that don't care about their rights.
     

    repeter1977

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    As stated before, you cannot correct ignorance. And even more so, you cannot correct someone that thinks they are right, no matter how many facts you have on your side. You could get a copy or two of gun facts and memorize points out of there. Or you could take the different road, thank them for expressing their ignorance, so now you know to ignore them from now on. Good luck, and just remember not to let anger get the better of you, cause then they win the fight, which is what they are trying to do. What most of them believe is, "If facts are not on your side, befuddle them and make THEM look ignorant or anger so it invalids them being right". Just my 2 cents. Growing up I tried to spread my knowledge until one day I finally realized, you cannot teach or educate the unwilling or closed minded. After that, I got a bit calmer.
     

    CindyE

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    I hate getting called insane because I like guns. I hate being called a murder because I hunt. I hate people saying I'm going to grow up and kill people because I like guns. I hate people saying I'm a idiot because I spend my money on guns. I HATE THE FACT THAT ALMOST EVERYONE I KNOEW IS LIBERAL!

    i've always been viewed by most people as kinda weird. mostly i don't care, i'm not a people person anyway. i decided long ago to just embrace who i am, and not worry about it. i like that you are here learning about guns, instead of from some video game.
     

    jgreiner

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    I hate getting called insane because I like guns. I hate being called a murder because I hunt. I hate people saying I'm going to grow up and kill people because I like guns. I hate people saying I'm a idiot because I spend my money on guns. I HATE THE FACT THAT ALMOST EVERYONE I KNOEW IS LIBERAL!

    Get some new friends.
     

    Mosinowner

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    My OP did sound alittle bit whiny. Just ranting a bit. The public EDU system makes me sad sometime
     

    jayhawk

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    I hate getting called insane because I like guns. I hate being called a murder because I hunt. I hate people saying I'm going to grow up and kill people because I like guns. I hate people saying I'm a idiot because I spend my money on guns. I HATE THE FACT THAT ALMOST EVERYONE I KNOEW IS LIBERAL!

    Stop hating. It really only effects you. Be at peace with your own choices.

    www.blackacrebrewing.com

    click "under 21"

    :) calm down and enjoy.

    ...and this.
     
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    jgreiner

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    My OP did sound alittle bit whiny. Just ranting a bit. The public EDU system makes me sad sometime

    LOL...tell me about it, I taught for 4 years. And I work in Higher Ed now. Talk about being surrounded by liberals/socialists. But even in this setting, there are conservative folks. You just have to find them.

    And personally, I don't give a rip what people think. Those that really know me, know me for what I truly am.
     
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