Trust me, it's in the works. We're not the type that just jump ship to a new location and hope for the best with our tails between our legs. Every night were looking at houses online. I'm mainly waiting for my GF to figure out what's going to be good enough for her. She wanted to move to CA. I said no way. I want to live in the woods or mountains, she wants to live in the city or on the beach. Now she just found out her work is drawing staff down from 7 positions to 3. So another variables been added to the mix. You would think a PhD would have good job security. I told her long ago it was a dangerous neighborhood with dangerous characters in it. She sluffed it off saying "they ain't gonna do anything to you, they're just trying look tough" while I'm told that I'm just paranoid.
My wife was near the same way. I am to nervous, over react etc. These days she spots the idiots coming before I do.