You need a "green light" to buy a gun? Take mama with you, decide together, Once you find what you want, apply at L1 for your LTCH and at the same time look over the MANY training opportunities available on the INGO site and sign up (BOTH of you) for Pistol 1, LEARN how to use your gun safely. I recommend you follow with NRA mainstay "Refuse to be a victim". Join a range and practice after you learn the basics of marksmanship. Apts are NEVER safe places to fire a gun, so you must be sure of your shot. Just don't leave the Mrs out of the loop, she needs to learn how to shoot as well. Before long, you'll be back at that gun store, or watching the For Sale thread on INGO for her very own gun. SWEET!