FFS, “toxic masculinity” is not the same as saying all masculinity is toxic.
What is wrong with this video?
Sexual Assault in the United States
https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics
Well, if that's true, that .1% (or even that 1%) sure get around. And I'm sure you can quibble with the statistics above, but even if they are off by an order of magnitude, your statement of the number of men out there who are the problem is massively understated.
- One in five women and one in 71 men will be raped at some point in their lives (a)
- In the U.S., one in three women and one in six men experienced some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetime (o)
- 51.1% of female victims of rape reported being raped by an intimate partner and 40.8% by an acquaintance (a)
- 52.4% of male victims report being raped by an acquaintance and 15.1% by a stranger (a)
- Almost half (49.5%) of multiracial women and over 45% of American Indian/Alaska Native women were subjected to some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetime (o)
- 91% of victims of rape and sexual assault are female, and nine percent are male (m)
- In eight out of 10 cases of rape, the victim knew the perpetrator (j)
- Eight percent of rapes occur while the victim is at work (c)
It happens when an entire group is condemned by the actions of a small subset of that group.
Well if the people triggered do the things depicted in that video, then they probably should be condemned. If it doesn't apply to them then.....
You may not want to use him as an example
[video=youtube;gVcS_9cad8g]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVcS_9cad8g[/video]
Well if the people triggered do the things depicted in that video, then they probably should be condemned. If it doesn't apply to them then.....
I do think that things are getting worse, and will continue to do so, and it has more to do with feminism than masculinity.
A mother can't teach a boy to be man, by example, yet more and more boys are being raised primarily by their mother.
These boys never mature into men, but that doesn't stop them from impregnating more women, and the cycle repeats.
If you don't socialize a dog and teach it how to be a dog, then it turns out to be a pretty ****ty dog. If you don't teach boys to be men, they turn out to be pretty ****ty men. That's not terribly hard to understand. The root cause of all of this is the post-modern rejection of Christianity and Judeo-Christian values. People have made themselves into their own gods. That means no judgment, but it also means no guidance, no solace, no sense of being or worth. Logically, you can't find worth any higher than your current position, if you believe you are the ultimate arbiter of your existence. Anywho... Until men start holding themselves accountable to a higher power, again, and raising the next generation to do the same, this train wreck of delayed adolescence will continue and will increase. Until women recognize that masculinity is just as laudable as femininity, it's going to be very hard for men to want to be better.