KittySlayer
Grandmaster
Do yourself and your wife a favor and file right away.
File now, start the process. Get over the male ego that you can't take / don't need money from the government. If you find you need it having the process started now will be helpful. Then you can focus on finding a job instead of dealing with a government agency. If at the end of the day you find out you didn't need the unemployment money then make a donation to your favorite charity. You can spend money far more wisely than the government.
ps Sorry about the job loss and good luck in your search.