I guess she wasn't the one. I believe when you find the right person the past doesn't matter. Nothing much matters. This Bobo guy was looking for an excuse. When I met my wife I knew instantly she would be with me for the rest of my life. Five minutes after meeting her I asked her to marry me, 5 seconds after asking she said yes. I knew nothing about her. I couldn't care less. When it's the right person nothing matters but the moment, when it's not the right person, I guess you let your cat and Facebook accounts take the blame.
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I'm breaking up with you because....
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Crazy......sure.
I'm 31, and only been with one person, my wife. And she's the same as well.
43 here- same story.
The time to start being faithful to your spouse is before you have a spouse.
That's an awesome way of putting it.
I think we are in the minority.
I think I may be in the minority for having the opinion that someone's sexual history is relevant.
Bunnykid68
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I am recently single and the only part that would be relevant to me about someone I was dating was whether they were bringing any little surprises with them to the relationship. What they have done in their past is exactly that, their past.
How you gonna find that out if you don't ask and she doesn't share? I'm not saying everybody has to have the same standard. But there are people here acting like it's a social crime to ask. If I didn't want a ho for a boyfriend, why don't I get to ask?
That ain't what they're saying in the Manson marriage thread.
I always considered it a taboo topic, particularly for women. I've never asked and don't recall ever being asked for a number. I couldn't provide one if I had to, never occurred to me to keep track and I wouldn't expect anyone else to.
So if you find find out that hubby lied about the number by one or two, what would you do?
Lying is a far bigger issue than number. Honesty at least lets me decide whether I want to commit or not. If the number were an issue for me, that's my issue. It's not a judgement or a criticism of him. It's simply an acknowledgement that I don't think we are compatible.
But that's my point. If it does matter to some people, why is it so bad that they ask?
I agree with ya, but I'm assuming you have a wonderful marriage and a loving husband, would that all change if you found out he had a past that you didn't know about, or if at this point, it wouldn't matter.
Yes. But because he lied, not necessarily because of the details.
It is to a point. Depends on a lot of things. If it is going to bother anyone then it is not the proper place to be. Move on.
I was married twice before I met my spousal unit. I call her that as we are a unit. She knows I was a freaking nut before I met her. All that became irrelevant when we decided to spend the rest of our lives together. She helped me finish raising my 3 sons and we have 2 children/7 G-daughters and one Great G-daughter. Life is good and we never looked back.
So you being a poopy head doesn't bother Mrs. GFGT? Did she know this before she said I do?Match un-maker, Match un-maker, un-make me a match?
So you being a poopy head doesn't bother Mrs. GFGT? Did she know this before she said I do?
No. And it didn't bother the other....oops! I almost let my secret out of the bag. Shhhhh! Don't say nothin'!
I agree 100%. Lying is a character flaw that is hard to over come.
