I guess she wasn't the one. I believe when you find the right person the past doesn't matter. Nothing much matters. This Bobo guy was looking for an excuse. When I met my wife I knew instantly she would be with me for the rest of my life. Five minutes after meeting her I asked her to marry me, 5 seconds after asking she said yes. I knew nothing about her. I couldn't care less. When it's the right person nothing matters but the moment, when it's not the right person, I guess you let your cat and Facebook accounts take the blame.