hoosierdoc
Freed prisoner
A colleague and good friend of mine had his mother harping on him to NEVER take any narcotic for pain relief, because she was worried about addiction. His injury: HE WAS SHOT, with one round passing through his side and another blowing out his elbow. The attitudes like your FIL's are widespread and persistent, and do not help.
well, the bullet wasn't in there anymore, so what was causing the pain? I learned from westerns that once you dive in and get the bullet out people do much better, if they survive your invasive search for an inanimate object