Y'all can do what you want. I do not pay your bills.
I HIGHLY suggest education, from experts, on the legal system. It'll cure a lot of ignorance.
Or cause a lot of second-guessing, ending up in failure to act that gets you or your loved ones killed. Lots of cops killed because they failed to act soon enough and aggressive enough. Deputy Kyle Dinkheller comes to mind. A man either knows how to protect himself and his loved ones, or he doesn't. There is no "what if" in my mind if someone breaks into my home and I identify them as a threat. You can do what you want, based on how much you value your loved ones' lives.