I've heard of several guys with ecoboost trouble. One guy ended up with a new truck as the dealer convinced him he'd be better off vs the cost of the repair. He was on his way home, but stranded several states away. They've only been out 7 yrs. so the guys w/ 200k+ you know are likely doing a lot of highway miles, long commutes, etc.
I've read a lot of Ford mechanics recommend the 5.0 if you want to keep the truck for many years. My F150 is a 2010 w/ the 4.6L v8. I bought a year or two earlier than planned because I didn't want to beta test a brand new design, and all motor options were brand new for '11. If I were the type who traded into new vehicles every 2-3 years, I wouldn't hesitate to go EB. Every 15 years? now I'm nervous. I suspect there's a reason they haven't put them in the 3/4 tons yet.
for towing the camper, I like the idea of the EB and it's low low torque curve, but I think I'd still opt for the v8 for longevity. maybe by the time I'm ready to buy a new truck sometime in the 2025 timeframe I'll be convinced of the turbo motor durability, but not yet.
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We used to pull a pretty big gooseneck full of round bales with a straight-6 and I've done a lot of work with a (by today's standards vastly underpowered) 318 with a 4 speed granny. What I learned about running overloaded is the drive train isn't the limiting factor, brakes and suspension are. I could get a lot more rolling than I could safely get stopped...