Has your significant other every caught you playing with your gun. It's embarrassing. You know, holding it, viewing it from different angles, unloading it, pointing it around the room. I've been caught! I just say something like, I need to be intimately familiar with how this thing works .... you never know when I'll have to use it ... and I have to be ready at all times. I think she'd understand more if she had a gun. But honestly, I'm glad I'm the only one with a gun in our relationship.