CPT Nervous
Grandmaster
And some people take their personal business too seriously. Referring to a police officer (even a Roseland cop) as a security guard, no matter how ignorant he is, is just plain dumb. And I wouldn't give up the personal service I get from my bank because of their "no guns" sign - I just CC right past it - I'm protecting myself, and no one is the wiser.
Okay. First of all, an off duty cop acting as a security guard, is a security guard. It isn't dumb to refer to a person as a security guard if that's what they are.
Second, just because you don't have personal morals does not mean that I don't. I WILL NOT spend money or do business with ANY establishment that does not respect my rights. If my bank ever puts up a no guns sign, I'm going right to the manager and closing all my accounts that day. Hell, they were gonna let me carry, just not openly, and I was ready to close them.
I do not sacrifice my values for anyone. You may be a weaker man, but I am not.
Unless there is an imminent threat, getting in someone's face about carrying just reinforces the stereotype of the "crazy gun nut". Based on the information that was presented, I think the OP handled it pretty well - stated his case, let the business know how he felt about the situation, and was willing to take his business elsewhere without being a jerk about it.
I got in no one's face. I explained that I would give no quarter on the issue, as you seem to understand. Why bring that up?